But I think you have to stay firm to your 'no friendship' unless she's done with OM, so I'd say no joining the trip unless it's really done.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14