WAH with OW/EA - advice wanted! :)

[LisaB]

Thank you cq1. You are so kind. Thank you for the words of wisdom.

I am just shocked I guess that this person whom I loved and trusted would do this. It seems so unlike him. Everyone who knows him/us says this. Who is this person?

I don't think it will last but maybe it will. I don't know if it matters. Is the damage already done? Can you ever trust that person again?

Of course I know it isn't about him at this point, it is all about me. I am doing my very best to be happy and content with my life but ... well, it is just a huge shock.

I'm not so sure I would want him to come back. My image of him is shattered. But then, do I be mean, friendly, distant... I have no clue what to do? I guess they say when you don't know what to do don't do anything. And be patent as you said cq1.

This [censored].