Okay - I've got to be proactive in this mess - have started an online dating profile - asked for EE support to refine this - asked for advice from EE companions to get through this - started looking for new digs on the web (a pain in Stockholm) - I need to stay close enough to d16 to maintain a relationship - wonder how big the apartment she and W are taking is, as this determines whether they will leave stuff here and when we can sell the house. What is the time scale of finding a new place? Also, I think it makes sense to dedicate a coaching session to coparenting and dealing with my changed situation.
Slept 2-3 hours last night, hopefully tonight will be better.
It is hard to hide my pain and sadness from d16, but I must.