I could hug your neck. LOVED your latest post. YES!!!! You are BOTH doing what's yours to do in that post. Most promising one I've read yet.
Your H is LEADING the discussion/suggestions of how HE will put OW out of the picture, where she belongs. He came up with a solution all on his own! And you are LETTING HIM LEAD. Doesn't that feel awesome?!? Liberating?!? Better than if YOU had suggested a solution??! I'm feeling light-hearted FOR you!
I'm also so glad to read that you have identified what's "littering" your side of the street and are making plans to deal with that. Good on you.
(And Bond, for the record, wow! That took balls! My hat's off to you!)
Well done, mdu. And a pat on the back (from me) is reserved for your hubs, too.
Feelin' happy for y'all. Relax. Breathe. And - most importantly - enjoy the concert!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014