Hi adinva,

Thanks for the no guilt trip point - that would be stupid.

Summarizing what I found on the Internet, it is recommended to:

1. stay physically near child
2. take kids on dates - perhaps I could book Wednesday evenings for dinner
3. go to important events in her life (e.g. school concerts)
4. tell her I will always love her and be available for her, no matter what time
5. listen to her, be patient, and support her

I will probably tell her #4 today and propose #2. Not quite sure whether to say that "of course I'll see you on the weekends".

Thanks,

Luke

ps. there is a long, pained, multiple post rant on UCA #12, somewhere below.