Well, it's when I pull back a lot, go dark,just give him space and act/am (?) detached that my STBXH comes around. I guess I'm a bit perplexed as the D has been filed just waiting on the judge to sign. However I think I'm quoting Sandi2 on my sitch that he needs the D to feel free. Now that the D is almost finalized, my STBXH is more open than before?!? I guess that's for him to know and work on just like I am working on myself albeit slowly and right now GAL is a bit difficult with my kids needing me more than ever as my 1st XH is in Japan so I don't have alternating weekends and holidays but that's okay... I do have a 5k Color Run in August and hopefully getting together with my friends as much as possible. Oh and Bocce which is every Monday till the end of August.
Me 34 M 2.5 (Both 2nd M) My kids-D 17,S 16,S 12 BD 2/14 D final 7/2014
