I'd add on to what Thornton has said and suggest keeping a journal, if you aren't already. Mine isn't very old so it's not all that useful yet, but I try to keep track of what I've done and when as well as H's mood and how much he engages with me in different ways.


M - 34
H - 36
Together 10 years
Married 4 years
BD - March, 2014