My H's MLC #2

[Ssarah]

So an update on my sitch, I hired an attorney today. She will be introducing herself to his L tomorrow morning. Let's see the reaction I get from H when that happens.

He's been extra distant, cold and snappy this week. His birthday is this weekend and we usually have a BBQ for his and his brothers bday at our house. Since most don't know about the D, his brother and my sister in law asked about the BBQ so I mentioned it to him today and he said he did not want to celebrate with everyone. He already has plans to watch the fifa playoffs somewhere and then go out after. He mentioned that maybe we could celebrate with just the kids on Monday but not with everyone. I really wish I never brought it up.

So I wanted to seek some advice. As I've mentioned in other posts my H stalks my phone. He sits on my phone bill and checks who I'm talking to / texting with all the time. I've mentioned to release my number so I can transfer it to my own account and he has yet to do it. Should I bring it up again? My thing is that I have nothing to hide. He's so ultra paranoid, insecure and jealous that if I keep pushing it he may think there is something to hide and will start lashing out more. Do I raise it again anyway? I just hate that he can monitor me.