Matt165 thanks for your post. Like your W my H has also done everything he said he wouldn't. He has become a person completely opposite of what he once was. He was always proud of the husband and partner he once was and now he's the polar opposite.
I definitely don't let the pain and anger drive and consume me it just comes on in moments of weakness as it has now. This has been a rough few weeks with my new reality of divorce. I just can't believe that in a matter of less than 3 months I went from vacationing with my husband to him hiring an attorney and seeking a D. I just can't believe how quickly ones life can be turned upside down.
Me: 35, H: 36, M: 6, S: 1, D: 3, BD: 4/21/14 H still living at home