Just re-read my last post...Maybe I do have an issue with finger pointing. Oiy.
Happens to us all. Sometimes it only takes a minute. Sometimes when you read last week's post, you can't believe you wrote it.
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he chose not to put effort into speaking mine, even though it had been discussed (requested, yelled, etc.) a number of times.
So you read Venus/Mars... and do you remember what it said about repeatedly discussing/requesting/yelling ...nag, nag, nag, complete shutdown...
Apathy, (and you must change your name), this is all good. You will learn here, if you stick to it. And we can probably help you understand what your H may be thinking. And that knowledge will help you decide how you want to deal with your situation, hopefully to improve the chances of getting the outcome you want.