Nero, I feel your pain. At the worst moments after BD I was grateful that my son was a grown up adult and I didn’t have to deal with little kids, because I was in such a pain that I could only handle so much. Later I realized that I was lucky to have a supportive family and my son. Yes, my family didn’t quite understand the concept of DB and standing, but they were always there for me. It would have been a lot more difficult for me without their support.

I remember you said that you have a good relationship with your niece(s). Maybe you can reach out and do some fun stuff with them.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state