julie, it is tough enough as it is the sits with our spouses. I know I too have tough days sometimes with my D16 . My D though is such a gift. so sweet. so genuine. she is the prize! h misses out. we have no set visitation. she may spend an occasional night at his apt.(its been weeks now) she was supposed to stay last tuesday night after a therapy and she said she was too tired to spend the night! she does make excuses sometimes( they are clever!) she will say she can't spend the night because she hasn't seen her brother... honestly, h asking for D to come visit in new city is the first time he has initiated something that would be more than 1 night.
get as much info as you can. We are here for you!
M48 H50 M21 T26 S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old PA confirmed 7/2012 H separates 9/2012 H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY OW still in picture. h filed 10/13