Hi Everyone. I have been over on the Newcomers forum for about a year now. Realizing my situation seemed more extreme tham most there I looke at other forums. reading the MLC forum I found a lot of the craziness I am dealing with in other stories here.
My wife has suffered from depression most of her life. During the winter of 2013 I was very ill and put on a strong dose of prednisone.I had a strong negative reaction on it and ended up with police and a stay in hospital to allow it to leave my system.
My wife had been having issues and signs I should have seen. unfortunately she chose to move out and take my three daughters with her. I was served papers as soon as I got out of hospital.
Since then much craziness has ensued. Multiple calls to the police. attempt to get restraining order. She ran out of money for divorce. Started running around and leaving kids for long periods of time without returning their calls.
I suspect that her depression combined with a mid life crisis was too much. She was not equipped to emotionally handle three teen girls by herself. Needless to say it came to a head and she walked out one night and tried to kill herself towards the end of April 2014.
Since then I have moved the girls back in with me. My wife has restarted the divorce. We had a little contact after she got out of hospital, but that has stopped.
At this point I am not attempting to make any contact for the last couple weeks. My girls are worried about their mom. She has expressed that she does not know what to do with her time when they are not there. My oldest has expressed concern that her mother won't be around by the time she is 25.
Thats a quick summation of my story. I will try to link to my last thread on the newcomers forum:
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