Just a word to say how much I've been enjoying your story.
You were even in my dream last night! (And Cadet, and Wonka were there, and Maybell, Ssarah, and even rayzzz, many more, and Pilot. And Toto too!)
I was dreaming I was posting on this board.
And to you, Thornton, I said how I like a post ^^^ way above now, where you spoke about you followed DBIng, took advice---essentially humbled yourself and you can see it paying off. That's fantastic. I think it was someone else's thread where you talked (very eloquently, I thought) about how when you really changed your feelings, your perceptions, that even though she wasn't right there, your W picked up on this.
I've been experiencing a similar effect, not just with my H, but it's extending to the greater community.
It's like letting go and choosing to be happy gives off a better vibe---and like butterfly wings, it sends ripples out into the world and PEOPLE NOTICE.
It's so '60's man--- better vibes. But it's true.
Someone else said, one of my lady friends on here, that it's as if we're "glowing" with all this PMA and GALing stuff.
And if we can "glow" in our situations, well, that's really something to think about.
Anyhow.
Just to let you know.
I'm so proud of your progress!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?