Julie, in the dissolution proposal my atty sent to my H's atty, we are asking that he only visit D11 at her home bi-weekly because of her anxiety. IF D11 feels comfortable, then he can take her elsewhere. She has already spoken up for herself on this matter and refuses to leave the house with him. In my case, Smokey has made things a bit easier, so to speak, because of his long absences/disinterest in her life.

I'm not sure what his atty will come back with?? But, you can definitely ask for what YOU feel is appropriate for your son. Back it up with the opinions of his doctor, counselor, teachers...the postman...anyone you feel will back up your request.

Will, does your daughter already collect SSI? I've been considering it...but, I'm waiting until the dissolution is settled. I don't know if SSI should factor into the child support formula.

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