So some interesting developments, but just trying to stay present.
After the debacle on Tuesday where my W went ballistic on the kids, she took some time for herself. Late yesterday, she started texting me, even a bit on Tuesday night. She was almost making conversation. I was brief and polite, but it took everything I had to end the conversation. Mostly about the kids. And some struggles she was having with some set up at her apt.
Next day, she again initiated contact, and actually asked if the kids could speak with her. She then sent pictures etc, and tried to converse via text. I again was not cold, but confident with a PMA. There has been a definite change in her behavior. And her interactions with OM. Although the extent of what is going on I don't know.
Then today. We had a FT appt, and W started texting me before and asked if I wanted to go out for coffee or lunch after the FT appt. I responded casually sure, let's see how it goes. FT was fine, when asked about lawyer, W was sort of "oh yeah, I forgot about that". We did go for a quick casual lunch after the FT, and it went well. W wished me a Happy Anniversary, which I found ironic, and then asked if it was possible to maybe come on the family vacation I have planned in two weeks. She said she is scared it wouldn't be a positive experience, but she is interested in meeting for some of it.
So I'm a bit confused, trying to stay present, but she has thrown me for a loop. She knows my stand with respect to OM, and while no mention has been made of a R between the two of us, her demeanour has changed. She wants to get together to talk about the upcoming trip and some "other things"
I'm nervous and not sure what to do. I know not to focus on the future, and stay present in the moment, but I don't want to make any mistakes (although isn't that how you learn )
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