Yea, should not have done that. Especially since you recognized your motive in chastising your H and used your S18 as a tool to do that. Big no no. And ultimately whatever result you THOUGHT you could achieve through your H is not going to happen.
Just to clarify, I made the comment to S18 last night and only told H this afternoon as we were discussing the situation by text . I was not trying to convey a message to H through S. Still. I know I should have refrained from that detail. I am just really tired of the lack of any real conversation between us. We have no R discussions and I have not asked a single question about OW. I am tired of this and I cracked.
