Well, I think my old thread in Newcomers finally locked. I wish I could figure out when that's about to happen so I can start a new one.
Last thread was "Speak Softly and Carry a Big Stick" in Newcomers.
Some helpful moderator will assist me in posting the old threads, I'm sure.
Wonka suggested I camp over here for awhile since it appears my H may be suffering from the dreaded MLC and I agree.
The crazy-making behavior, the childish/teenaged antics. It's enough to make my head spin around backwards...
Something is changing with him recently, but I don't want to read into it. Not that I could if I wanted to.
---GGG
(That's Gumby Goat Gal now. Because I'm "Flexible"!)
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
You're the most reliable thing in my life right now!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
GoatGal: (RE: H being something I observe, like an amoeba under a microscope ) "I can have a hypothesis, but I can't predict the outcome, nor can I influence the experiment."
Wonka:"This is quite a misnomer when it comes to DBing, right? You do influence the "experiment" through your actions and words. And the now infamous STFU duct tape too!" ;0
So much for my "Scientific Method"....
I'll have to leave the double-blinds behind. But I will keep plenty of STFU duct tape in the laboratory!
--GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
GoatGal: (RE: H being something I observe, like an amoeba under a microscope ) "I can have a hypothesis, but I can't predict the outcome, nor can I influence the experiment."
Wonka:"This is quite a misnomer when it comes to DBing, right? You do influence the "experiment" through your actions and words. And the now infamous STFU duct tape too!" ;0
So much for my "Scientific Method"....
I'll have to leave the double-blinds behind. But I will keep plenty of STFU duct tape in the laboratory!
--GGG
Someone I know used to get the duct tape in different colors, pink, blue, orange is the new black.......
I have it in sky blue, magenta, neon orange (for emergencies), as well as "crime scene yellow".
If you must use it, you might as well be fashionably coordinated.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
PS: H has a sudden "appointment" today about which he's giving no details...
Just so happens that the big name university around here that has a special clinic for porn addiction/sexual/relationship/intimacy problems has intake hours on Fridays during the exact hours he's going to be MIA.
I happened by his lawyer's office on my way home from some errands, not that I was looking, specifically, but if his car had been there I would have seen it.
(OK. I looked. Happy now?)
I can think of no other reason he'd have some long, open-ended appointment out of the blue.
I dare to hope maybe... maybe...he's realizing that a lonely, porn-addicted life is not for him. After all, since he's been out of the house he has had the ability to go whole-hog on that and could no longer blame me for the bad feelings it generated. Maybe it's like too much ice cream...
But no expectations. It could just be he's having his windshield replaced.
I am curious though.
Hmmmmm....
I'll see what he looks like when he shows up.
Work clothes mean he was at work. Casual clothes mean he hasn't gone to work at all today. A band-aid on his arm means he had bloodwork done (overdue).
Curiosity is allowed, right?
I'm not reading anything into it, just observing my favorite amoeba!
In any case, no matter what he says/doesn't say/do I'll just say: "Oh, yeah?"
And STFU.
I find I really don't care much either way but it could be an interesting development.
Or not.
He is changing and up to something, I have no doubt of that.
Time will answer all questions, or I'll learn to stop wanting answers.
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
About time!!! Glad you've staked out your tiki here. You'll meet the most charming, nuttiest, wacky, and fun group of people right here in the MLC forum. Sure, there's one or two with a few loose marbles but not naming any names!!!
I sincerely do hope that H is truly seeking out help for his porn addiction problem. fingers crossed
Can we have a party on your porch with margaritas and amaretto?
