Hurt and Confused 2

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Now her cousin texted me, he says the same that everyone misses me and my humor and all the crazy stuff I would do every year there, it feels good knowing her family cares for me a lot. He also mentioned something weird, he said "Dude you have to win her back" ...."I know you can do it"..."stay close to your FIL, he has good advice on that for you" then he writes "You need to change some things, lets talk in person when I get back"....I wonder what that meant? also he told me my inlaws are very sad about the whole thing and that my W hasent even told them we are divorcing, he heard it from inlaws. W hasent even mentioned me to her cousin..wierd.