We will be divorcing. Some can come through this without leaving the M and family, some cannot. She cannot.
And I need a D to allow me to fully move on as well. I will not cheat, and I would feel like I was cheating if we just stayed separated. Whenever that next person comes along, they deserve to have me fully present.
I'm getting some closure... and my "stand" got her to some kind of stability before she walks her journey.
And the grace is because of the people here, making me dig deep, looking at the reflections they offered me, of me. And doing something about those reflections.
If I would have walked or kicked her out 3 years ago, it would have been horrible to have her out of the street in the state she was in.
Last edited by TSquared2; 07/10/1406:58 PM.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
