Hi T2, You are very lucky to have gotten the validation that you have from your W. What I wouldn't give to have my W say half of what yours has said to you. What are your (and W's) plans moving forward? Has she or you thought about filing for D?
It does sound like she may be progressing to another stage in her MLC journey. I really do hope for her, your and your boys sake she can come through and find peace. I wish you the best T2. You sound like you are handling this with grace and that isn't an easy thing to do!