Over the years, I rarely saw that side of him come out with others, but never to me. Until MLC struck. OUCH!
No more jerks!
The thing is, he's high up director at fortune 200 company with 100+ employees under him. He does his job well handling all of them, and they seem to respect him, giving him positive reviews, but know he wont hesitate to lay off or fire them, if necessary. That's the type of personality he has.
With the mlc anger he's directed all that "efficient cutting of deadwood" that he perceives towards me and everything I did. He had a project plan chart and check lists for his steps to move out, attorney meetings, apartment locating, furniture purchases...etc. I actually saw them on his desk before he moved out. He treated D like any other project implementation without consideration for feelings, morals, only cold hard facts and data, as he'd say.
So basically, I was a "fired" wife.
He has moved on to the next "project" --the OW just as he did me in the early days of dating him. He aggressively pursued me, in an organized manner. I probably was a "project" as well, back in 1999 along side his Y2K plan.
M 56 H 52 M 13.5 T 15 S 28 twinStep Ds 24 ILYBNILWY BD 1/5/14 OW 4/11/14 Divorce petition efiled 5/5/14 Divorce final 7/8/14
