Yes Matt, death has been for in the forefront of my W's mind, as it is for all those struggling through a life crisis. That's why death or serious illness of a parent or someone close is often a trigger.

"Look!!! I only have X amount of time left!!!" "I MUST do something NOW."

I've heard comments about death many many times over the last 2 and a half years. In the past, W talked about not caring if she died. Based on recent comments and ACTIONS (she started working out again) it seems she wants to live. Yay!

It is a time for positive growth, and I believe we can lead the way with our actions.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl