these guys are crazy- they take on their "burdens " willingly- then want to whine and blame us when they're "not happy". i am not sure why in the world men seem to think everyone is entitled to "be happy" allllll the time.
every single thing in life has it's upside and it's down- the whole r, family, etc....
i feel like a "burden" myself. all the time. i offer to get lost and he can be free of alll the burdenness of me. he convinces me to stay(?) "til you find something better", wtf??? "my financial sitch will be alot easier with hinm around"??? wtf - he is creating his own burden of me by wanting to keep me here so - what? i can be his "safety net" of some sort.
don't buy it- they're big boys. they have gotten themselves into what they are - the good and the bad.
they all need to man up and take their lumps along with the good (lots and lots of good they've derived from us over the years - which now doesn't wseem to even register.
hope you're okay- i think they know how it affects us to hear that- diminishes us- etc.
dont let it man.....
xxo
i Maybe you'll be plelsantly surprised that the job will actually be kind of "freeing" and feel good to be out there interacting in an office again. (my own surprising feelings when i got working a bit again. - but i am amazed and pleased that i like it- the routine and socialization. i was dying to stop working when i did- differnt life - different feelings, etc. sddenly it's "good for" me and feels good too. who ever woulda saw that coming???
fingers crossed - i hope you find something great and love it.
