many people on here LIVE with their Xs every day, sleep in the same house, same bed, etc.
the proximity makes no difference. The length of time of consistency matters.
again, its not about HIM. its about YOU. 3 weeks of being cold does not mean YOU have changed.
you seem to keep missing that this is all about YOU.
YOU NEED TO CHANGE. YOU have issues that need fixing. YOU need to change 40 years of habits. and this will not happen in 3 short weeks which contain setbacks and backsliding.
you insist on making this about HIM.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
