I don't want to dump my d16 and abandon her by moving to another country (an option I'd consider if she were not around). But there has to be enough of a reason to stay here.

I imagine if I found another woman, that might work. I certainly don't want to be alone in an empty house filled with memories where d16 and WW turn up occasionally. As far as I am concerned, I have been sc--d over enough by WW to say she has no convenience rights here anymore.

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