Thank you for sharing the email Tarheel, that's helpful.
Originally Posted By: Tarheel
If you decide to take that route, I would enjoy vacation and present it when you get back. You don't want that awkwardness hanging over you during that time.
My thought on doing it before is that the kids and I are leaving a week before H comes out. Which gives OW a week of interrupted time to whisper in his ear without my influence. I'm afraid he'll up and move out while I'm gone. He had previously promised not to, but then again he told my he had given up the A just a week or so before he rolled in at 6:30am after having spent all night with OW. Lots to think about.
