So utterly confused what to do next. Go to the concert with H, don't go to the concert. Give him the letter, don't give him the letter. Go to the concert THEN give him the letter as discussed with DBing coach. Or scratch the letter and do something else entirely. Maybe go dark (or as dark as one can go when co-parenting). Or do something really crazy like give him a call and try to actually talk to him about what went down yesterday. Now that would be novel!

I am just so shocked that he would think any contact with OW is ok in any way, shape or form. Just goes to show that once again I have been too trusting and naïve about where his head is REALLY at. I'm totally baffled by his behavior of late, we had been connecting so much. For this to come out now seems just so crazy. I don't get it at all.

M: 42
H: 43
M: 8 years
S7 and D4
H has D19 and S25 from previous M
Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA
1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail
2nd separation: 5/1/14