CC - I thought about wearing the ring on my right hand as well mostly because I think it's pretty and it was my grandmothers but it still reminds me of the marriage of course so I don't. Yes the cat is microchipped, i have a live trap set up outside but have caught nothing, not even a coon or possum which i'm surprised about. I live in a heavily wooded area and when I got this cat from the shelter they said they had to trap her outside, someone had dumped her they thought. Took them several days though, but it's been 2 weeks today and i've not seen her since. I think she's out in the woods. I have a garage (that's how she got out) but most of my neighbors have car ports so I don't think she got stuck in one of those. No way to know, just hope that she does end up at the shelter so I could get her back, but who knows, I'm leaving that in God's hands too. He's handled everything else for me good so far!! Yes I consider myself very lucky I didn't have to pay equity and you nailed it, I think he felt guilty about the whole thing and that's why he was just walking away without anything. Now maybe he's regretting that decision but it's too late. I guess me signing the divorce papers right away was a good decision because I got it done before he had time to think more on it. At the time he was very pleased with himself and wanted to be "friendly" but now he seems to be in a different place emotionally. Not my problem!
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
and it was my grandmothers but it still reminds me of the marriage of course so I don't. Yes the cat is microchipped, i have a live trap set up outside but have caught nothing, not even a coon or possum which i'm surprised about. I live in a heavily wooded area and when I got this cat from the shelter they said they had to trap her outside, someone had dumped her they thought. Took them several days though, but it's been 2 weeks today and i've not seen her since. I think she's out in the woods. I have a garage (that's how she got out) but most of my neighbors have car ports so I don't think she got stuck in one of those. No way to know, just hope that she does end up at the shelter so I could get her back, but who knows, I'm leaving that in God's hands too. He's handled everything else for me good so far!! 
