Sigh......OK, sounds like it could be a positive thing. I am fearful of telling the kids, guess I need to talk that one out with IC or MC. Not sure how to approach it with H, should I ask him to read the same book that I am reading (he's not a big reader), or just propose the idea myself? Kids and I are leaving for a final family vacation on Sunday, then H joins us a week later. Ironically, it's to spend time with his family, whom I love and have a great relationship with. Not sure whether to wait until after vacation or bring it up before so he has the week alone to think about the terms. Of course, he won't really be alone, he'll be with OW. Grrrrr.....
