I think I would be questioning and resistant to a S in my own situation, but from the inside the tendency is to try to cling and control. S feels like the opposite of that, so it's hard. But maybe sometimes space is what people need to figure out who and where they are, and if they don't think they're getting it, my guess is that it will only make things worse in the long run.
M - 34 H - 36 Together 10 years Married 4 years BD - March, 2014