MM, 3 weeks ago is nothing, its a blink. when you hit the 3 month point of consistency, then you have a beginning. after 3 years, then you can consider it a real change.
what you also have to understand is, consider how much effort you've put in over the past 2 years to get to this point, which is really just the beginning of change for you. Well HE would need to "snap" (whatever that means) and then put in that same level of effort to change his issues. IF he ever gets to that point.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
