Also - it's interesting how your H said it'd be bad to rush into marriage without living with someone first... and yet here he is. Sheesh.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final