I was just thinking how I hadn't seen a post from you in a while... and then saw this :S Ewww. I'm so sorry you found that out. Glad you are getting the testing done (that sounds awkward to say!) Do you find that a lot of things make more sense now that you know that was underlying everything?
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final