Fast forward...I had the financial conversation w/H. It took some doing but he finally got his mojo going and has steady income now. Thats a huge sigh of relief. Now that he feels good about how he's progressing, he's decided to lay out a few commands of his own which include me ceasing all contact w/male friends. I dont have a problem with this but it has no basis and I kinda feel this is his way of controlling the M and being manipulative again. Thoughts?