[BrightFuture]

He's MARRIED!!

Oh heah, I forgot about that, LOL.

Heather, yes, the conversations with my friends will keep coming up. There is just no way around it. I can minimize them, but I cannot completely shut it down. They are H’s friends too, they do stuff together when he lives over there. You Mom is not Smokey’s friend and doesn’t spend time with him. The only thing I can possibly do here is just to end my friendship and stop going to the vacation home. Which I consider from time to time when it gets too much for me.

The conversations about my GF’s cousin are not bothering me anymore. When I mentioned “hurt”, I was talking about the past, when I first found out and some time after that. Sometimes I even wish that she and my H would get into actual R with each other. I’m pretty sure that the rose colored glasses would come off very quickly. Instead, H is still “dreaming” about this perfect partner that doesn’t exist.

You are absolutely right about him not being a catch these days. My friends actually wonder if he ever was a catch. My male friend actually repeated again that he thinks that H is in MLC. And I keep doubting it.