Long term marriage - husband quit!

[MrBond]

Again, most of how you feel you are doing to yourself. Think of it this way. If a stranger came up to you and said and did the same thing that your spouse is you wouldn't give it a second thought. You don't give power to their words. If you "feel" unwanted, that's all on you. I'm sure there are others who love you...friends, family, etc. But if you only concentrate on what your WAS says, you will stay stuck.

Once you understand that you have a choice to how you let something affect you, you'll be much better off.

And BTW, you need to start a new thread as this one will be closing soon.