Good for you oad. Keep strong and keep working on yourself, and resist the temptation to get reeled back in prematurely. I am going through the same thing right now, and am finally learning that these requests to come back for tonight, or anything similar is just testing me, even if it feels like she is softening. She will let you know if her feelings actually do change and she will hopefully try to win you back at that point. Stay strong brother!


Me 31 Her 30
M 5.5 T 11
0 Kids
Bomb drop: 4/13, EA+PA: 12/13
Separated: 12/13, 3rd chance of counseling:7/14