Every relationship is different. I know how hard it is right now for you, trust me I went through he@@ and am pretty much still there even though my H and OW are no longer together and he lives on my couch........

Honestly my best advice to you is try not to think about the affair 24/7. I personally know that is easier said than done. Make yourself as busy as possible and keep your mind busy at all times.

Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction