Long term marriage - husband quit!

[Ben2010]

MrBond,
Why do you always have to down people just because they dont want to wait 3 years like you did?

Maybe some people on here value themselves enough to not want to go through the pain of that for that long. Just because you did it doesnt mean that its the right way for everyone. There is nothing wrong with setting a goal for the timeframe. Even my C said that. Im pretty sure its in the book too. It isnt set in stone, but a good guideline. Its also something that can be changed later on if it's fitting. Im just saying some people can only take getting [censored] on for so long before they have had enough. Apparently that time for you was never.