"I do not want to label him, but if this is a MLC, I don't have 3 - 10 years in me. I'm patient but not that heroric! If he has not filed yet, (as of Friday he had not) I will try to DB another 4 months, but with him avoiding the house and not even talking to me, how good can that work?"
You mentioned this at the beginning of your thread. I will tell you one thing, and that is that you can't put a timetable on this. It took my W 3 years before she started turning around.
Since you don't have the patience, I would suggest you file the paperwork, get a D and find someone that's perfect for you. I mean I'm sure your new relationship won't have any issues either.
So if you don't want to wait, what are YOU waiting for?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
