I had an affair... and I want my Fiancee back

[Ben2010]

Yeah youre gonna have to make more of an effort than just a few days man. She has to miss you some before you can try to do that kind of thing. Youve only been at this for 2 weeks or so total.

You talk about it hurting so much without her. How much pain do you think she is in right now? She wants nothing to do with you right now. Youre going to have to give her some space and consider her needs here.

Get a grip and leave her alone for a bit.