Long term marriage - husband quit!

[Ben2010]

I understand. It doesnt mean that any of what I said is untrue. Dont be completely discouraged. Work on detaching and give this some time. I know you want his A to end right now and to start working on it, but it will take some time. Once you detach and he tries to come back around then you can be the one to decide whether you are willing to accept him back.