I came home tonight and found D20 sitting here having done no job hunting today...and yesterday it poured so she didn't do any either. Tonight she's going with D17 to a Value Village to hand in a resume...and do a little shopping I'm sure. I told her that this was not good enough. Job hunting is a job, pure and simple. I expected to see her out every day doing something. There's always a reason not to do today what you can put off till tomorrow and that day is over...now! She stayed home today because she had planned to go to a shopping mall and hand out resumes but, hey, why waste a bus ticket today when you're going there tomorrow on the way to stay at bf's? So I asked her why she didn't go elsewhere then? I told her my patience has limits...so don't push it!!!