I just don't believe he said it this time as bait. He is truly confused/overwhelmed and it is obvious.
Why? How could you believe it's different this time? The words don't even change. You could save a lot of your time if you would copy and paste these discussions. Maybe you aren't seeing the repetition, b/c you are clinging to hope....but it's there.
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He really enjoyed our dates/time spent as he felt relaxed and was having a nice time with me.
You've brought this more than once, but I can't remember you having dates. When were these dates he refers to?
I'm not trying to be ugly, Magic. But I just wonder if you have that need to go back through and rehash it again, or if that's what you're hearing, or if the two of you actually say word for word every time you talk to each other. It's just weird to me. I have never heard of so many conversations that never vary over a dozen words. Don't you find that a little strange?
And for pity sake, why did you have to tell him you were disappointed he didn't appreciate the gesture to reconcile? (You mean your gesture.) Have you not been rejected enough? You put yourself out there for him to do it to you. That is not self value! You cheapen yourself every time you enter into one of these discussions with him, and it pushes you back to square one all over again.....b/c you've let him know you how you feel.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
Why? How could you believe it's different this time? The words don't even change. You could save a lot of your time if you would copy and paste these discussions. Maybe you aren't seeing the repetition, b/c you are clinging to hope....but it's there. 