It's confirmed that W is done with OM3, holding to her words of the other day. I know it's only 3 days, but she's been slamming down his advances. I've been here before though with OM1, so no expectations.
Yet to be confirmed is whether she holds to her word on dumping OM2.
W bought me a muffin to bring to work today. I've mentioned this before -- it has always been a loving gesture that she has done for years. I have always thanked her for it. I take nothing by it today, but it has been a long time since the last one. I texted her a simple "thank you, I appreciate the thought" as she was still asleep when I left this morning. No response. None expected.
W called 15 minutes ago. "I'm very angry right now." Uh-oh, what have I done now? She hit a pot hole and some cover from under the car fell off. And the dealer gave her the run-around, etc. etc. etc. It was all venting. I validated. I did not ask her if she needed anything. I did not offer to help. She did not ask. She just wanted to vent. Then she said goodbye.
W called 5 minutes after that, angry at a different dealer. Warranty... blah, blah, oil change guy didn't put cover on right... blah, blah, blah. Well I gotta go and call the kids. Again, I offered nothing but my ear.
It has been easily 6 months since my W called me up like that just to vent or blab. In fact, she spoke more to me in those two calls than she has in the last month. Again it doesn't mean anything, except that I'm still the go to guy for all the problems.
So it's been a day of little things that individually mean nothing, and collectively mean nothing.
