"We have agreed..." "We would like...." "We will be living..."
It sounds like you were able to come to these decisions as a unit, working together.
That, in and of itself, it cause for celebration.
Good job!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?