"MM, I gave up on you a months ago. I am disappointed that you don't appreciate the gesture of my time and opinions, I am not wasting my time waiting for you anymore."
This ^^^ is me trying to manipulate you by guilt, using your same sentence formation. its immature and controlling, its a child's tantrum.
it is also worded to make you feel inadequate and stupid. its also insulting.
instead, if i were to word it in a mature, self-respecting way i'd have given my opinions and then say: nothing. I'd have assumed you heard me, and are capable of making a decision on your own.
do you see the difference?
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
