Tx Matt - I am not sure where to feel good about my convo. I did try to continue the convo much after he wasn't invested anymore & feel it was a backslide. And he was still insistent about "i dunno & not ready yet" comments. Although I did not ask him anything about reconciling... just that I had tried 3 weeks ago & wasn't noticed. Please tell me where I did well in my talk?
WH... thanks for chiming in... Yes, I know I am co-dependent & am working on it. Recognizing it is a big step for me. I will continue to concentrate on me & leave him in his mess (that he made...his choice).
Yes... keep moving forward for ME. I must let this pass & not dwell on any of it. Although I am reviewing it all today.... I must focus on my needs & pursue them. Dropping the rope & detaching was working... I need to continue this. I will NOT STOP because he noticed.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
