THanks guys. Things are moving along slow and steady. More contact and some discussions.
It feels like we just met and are getting to know each other again. I don't think either one of us wants to show all our cards just yet. It will take time to build that trust up. We are discussing our feelings and I'm doing my best to validate and STFU. Practice makes perfect.
Easy does it!
Wow....its like...you ALMOST read some of that stuff on your threads huh ???
Easy does it killa....
You still have a crapload of work on yourself too...
Don't start sniffing around, and forget that you have to put yourself first through this....
Your healing is STILL....priority number one...
Same as HER healing should be her priority. It's not your job to "fix" her....
The hardest parts are still yet to come...
Using all of those shiny new tools that you have now, and using them to rebuild love, and trust...
It is too dammed easy to start feeling secure, and falling back into old behavior patterns in your relationship.
Right now, words are still just words. Consistent actions over the course of time is what you want to keep your eye on. Hers AND yours...
